Saturday, November 8, 2008

For my own sake

I wanted to take a moment and just go through what Cambry is doing these days...and hopefully get a little sympathy from all you moms out there. I honestly thought that whatever I/we did with Colten as a baby could just be transferred to this one and it would just all work the same, boy was I wrong!!!

Cambry is such a content and happy baby, and really has been since the beginning. She loves other people and loves to be in the middle of whatever is going on. She still, now four months old, refuses to take a bottle, of any kind!!! Nope, no bottle, no pacifier for her, she is waaaay beyond that. She takes milk from a medicine dropper, yes like a baby bird, and that's exactly what it looks like. We tried everything under the sun to get her interested and our pediatrician just finally said, ok no more just stick with whatever will work until she's ready for a sippie cup. So, the 3 mornings a week I am at work, that's how she gets by. It works for us, thankfully.

Now onto sleep...such a big deal for us mommies. She has been a great sleeper at night from the day she was born. She's not quite sleeping through the night, but has 6 to 8 hour stretches and sleeps a total of 10 hours at night. She's just up to eat and then right back to sleep. She HAS slept through the night several times, but will definitely sleep longer if up to eat one time. Now napping recently has been a different story. I have come to the conclusion that the second baby just has to adapt to the schedule already in place. That has been rough it seems!!! I am so much of a scheduler and really like things my way, ha ha right?! Everyday just seems so different and she's having to adjust. We are now on somewhat of a schedule, but the duration of naps are just so unknown. One day it's longer naps and the next day, just catnaps. And...she's going through this separation thing, where she is sometimes just beyond upset when I put her down to nap. It's like we will never be together again, poor baby. We're working that out though and have had many many heart to hearts on the matter.

Alright, I know I have rambled and gone on long enough. So much is petty, but I did want to document it, so in the future I can look back and know we got through each phase just fine. In addition, she is becoming more and more mobile, she's rolling so much more and can literally turn a 180, especially when watching Colten. It's precious, she just laughs and laughs at him and he, of course, eats it up!!! She's really liking vegetables, so far and seems to be enjoying eating with us at the table.

That's about it...for now...

5 comments:

Chera said...

At least its not the night time she's having a hard time with! ;o) I remember how hard it was to find the "just right" schedule for BOTH kids! One day it will just fall into place and this phase will end....promise!! Love you!

the smith family said...

I am right there with you! Aubrie is a horrible napper. Sometimes I am glad if she naps 30 minutes! I am sure it is difficult for Aubrie to relax with a LOUD 2-year-old sister running around! Aubrie had to be swaddled up until about a month ago---- she kept getting out of the swaddle blanket (she is STRONG and weighs 19 + pounds!) So, we put her in the swing a lot!! The second one is really much different than the 1st one! We were spoiled with Gracie as such an easy baby! Aubrie is happy, but much much more particular about most everything! Hang in there! I am right there with you!

Andrea W. said...

Bless your heart- you do have my sympathy!! I don't have any advise except that we had all the same issues at one time and somehow made it through. But I do feel for you, it sure is miserable while you are in the midst of the schedule-less day with a baby who can't eat without you and a toddler who misses your undivided attention. Keep me updated.

Andrea W. said...

I forgot to say that it was so good to see you Sunday, and that Ashlyn has not stopped talking about Cambry!

Jennifer said...

Wow, a medicine dropper? Amazing. I thought Levi would be more like Caleb as well, but the only similarity they have is that nighttime sleep has been a BIG issue for us!

Keep up the good work!